Let's start with the proof and proving, anybody can say 'I love you' but proof in their actions will speak differently ...so I'm looking in the mirror on this one!
Jhn 15:13 Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.What does this mean? First the word 'friends'...If I lay down my life, I should be doing it for friends...do I have any friends?

Is my Hubby, my friend? Nah! For real!

You mean I can take all those standards and laws concerning woman/female and just >

< answer, NO! Now the Lord is >
(Ironic, Abraham's seed is called in Issac, "laughing"

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Okay, so the second thing that stands out in that verse, 'lay down his life'... (and I will let the word 'friends' linger)
Mat 16:25 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it.
Luk 17:33 Whosoever shall seek to save his life shall lose it; and whosoever shall lose his life shall preserve it.Mat 10:39 He that findeth his life shall lose it: and he that loseth his life for my sake shall find it.