Message #255

[peacemaker]

I like that, used it, or should I say used on me... when i have let my flashy side run wild!

My hubby last night seen a post off of face book that our nease left all the family.  Giving the what toes and where fors to the family for the gossiping...it was pretty said, because her parents devorced this year, and movied on with their lives, but our family has seemed to think that is ok to then trash her mother freely and openly on the forum.  I will not even jusify the nastiness that others got from her that seemed to let them feel it was ok.  But there was no cover to spar the kids from hearing the trash that was coming out of the adults mouths.  she names only 3, my hubby, I and out kid for being a true christian in her eyes.  Even though it might be a pride point in others eyes to be named so, it wasnt for us.. Just so overwellingly sad.  One bad behavor leading to others bad behavors, the flash leads to justifying our longing for revange.

My hubby wrote her back, that all are humand, and that we all should speek so, even her! 

It is exstra harder to keep ourselves from going down that rout, and not own what has been done against us as if we need to take those steps to protect what ourselves from words that others state.  Yet, to get read of all those things listed in Ephesians 4:30.  We need to take a step within ourselves and see just what the root of those feelings are coming from, deal with it, and move on. 


Bitterness....The noun has 4 meanings:

Meaning #1: a feeling of deep and bitter anger and ill-will
  Synonyms: resentment, gall, rancor, rancour


Meaning #2: a sharp and bitter manner
  Synonyms: acrimony, acerbity, jaundice


Meaning #3: the taste experience when quinine or coffee is taken into the mouth
  Synonym: bitter


Meaning #4: the property of having a harsh unpleasant taste
  Synonym: bitter



rage-
1.
a.Violent, explosive anger. See synonyms at anger.
b.A fit of anger.
2.Furious intensity, as of a storm or disease.


anger-A strong feeling of displeasure or hostility.


v., -gered, -ger·ing, -gers.

v.tr.
To make angry; enrage or provoke.

v.intr.
To become angry: She angers too quickly.

Now with this one"anger" The word state to be angry and not sin, so we might need some time to cover over that, so we all get a great ballance of what that is all about in the word!


Brawling-
1.A noisy quarrel or fight.

Slander-
1.Law. Oral communication of false statements injurious to a person's reputation.
2.A false and malicious statement or report about someone.

Every kind of malice-
1.A desire to harm others or to see others suffer; extreme ill will or spite.
2.Law. The intent, without just cause or reason, to commit a wrongful act that will result in harm to another.

this saying that there is many ways in acting this one our .


I say the weight of the word falls on the last part of this order...BE KIND AND COMPASSIONATE.


if WE FOCES ON BEING KIND OAND COMPASSIONATE, WE WILL NOT HAVE TIME TO DO THE OTHER THINGS...i WOULD THINK!


I am going to be thinkiing of a way to show love to my neace tomarrow.  Maybe by sending her a card, or a call, or both!