overcomerstonewbeginnings

I do want to say, peacemaker, there is a difference, at least for me between strangers and people I know and love.  It hurts more coming from people I know and love when they dump on me like I had happened earlier.  With a stranger, I usually just shake it off, but it's different with someone I care for.

That might help you to see it that way, at least for folks you might not know well, it shouldn't bother you, but I don't know what to say when its with someone that is a close friend or a trusted person or a loved family member.