Agreeing...but in that church, I had relastionships, and those that had us kicked out was making it hard on us from the get go.
I have had that kind of pain you are talking about from family, and it got so bad, and abusive I had to cut off the relastionships I had so they would leave me alone! The hard thing is they team up in his family against you, and they have against me, and I feel even more alone at times because of it all!
I guess it is a big reason why I had that dream I had about losing my hubby and daugher in a park. It scared me so back I was shacking.
But you are right...it is hard to deal with it.