Author Topic: Stupid Pain  (Read 127 times)

Offline RoseofSharon

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Re: Stupid Pain
« on: June 29, 2010, 10:56:45 am »
 agreed Seven. I was thinking alng those lines as I was reading down.

What I also want to add is this: both within my family and in my circle of friends church etc... I too have experienced such pain and anguish, I thought I'd forgiven so many times and then they'd come and hurt me again and all the old wounds opened up again, until one dy God showed me something that turned me around. I was forgiving them every time, but there was one person who I was not forgiving and that was me. Each time I would kick myself for being in that situation or blame myself for x or y thing. God litterally shook me up and showed me that I had to accept His forgiveness for me and forgive myself for my part, and let go and recognize that not everything is my fault. Once I did that meeting with and socialising with those who hurt me and who get defensive if I say something wrong although still painful was easier to see that it was their problems that are being expressed and not anything personal to me. Learn to firgive yourself and accept that God has aready forgiven you.  godloveu