as well, for her grandfather. He is totally into playing the favorite game, and I sat down and talked to her about the ways. Because I needed to get her to see that she doesnt take the time to know how to reach other for christ from where they are.
Her grandfather has a favorite grand child. I dont like him and have made a point of protecting my child from the kind of harm that favortizem causes by parents like him. Yes I sat with her and talked about how it started down that road with the other grand child. That she would say nice things, be nice to him and do nice things to show she cared. And he sucked it up like a dry spunge...I made a point that I am not telling her to do that to get him to like her, because I dont feel that kind of head games are right, but I was pointing out the niceness of the other child that made him feel wanted. then I turned and told her to tell me what kinds of things she sees me doing and I named two nabors near us that I have been trying to share christ with. I asked her do I treat them the same, and it took some time but she came to the point of knowing that each one of us has to make it a goal to win others for christ and the only way to do it is to reach them where they are at, and that isnt by doing only the things we like and not what others like. Taking that idea we then talked about how she likes to play with cars with brandon, same kid in the dream...but swims in pools and plays dolls and dress up with the little girl next door, does brandon like play dress up,....no...she would say, I then told her you wouldnt go over their and hand him a doll and dress up cloths and exspect it to work right? She sh
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