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Offline peacemaker

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Re: struggling
« Reply #15 on: June 30, 2010, 07:39:46 pm »
It makes me made for when we are in need of fellow women to up left us, we mostly seeing them act as if struggling with lust is = to being a perve in their eyes.  I have seen those in my own family try and make others them then themselves as if they are butter for not admitting they struggle with it.  They move fast to condem and control men, bullying them and abusing them for struggling with this area.  Forcing them to wear a tags by their own words being spread in GOSSIPING over their family members or friends struggles, inorder to make themselves look like they are on top above others for this very struggle.  Leaving us women not free to talk about this area, leaveing more inslaved out of fear. 
I can say I am hungy, need shaulter, addictied to drugs, but I am in truth more fearful to open my mouth to women about this area, then any other group...lets add being able to talk about being over weight as well.  I cant tell you how many times i have others first steps towords them thinking they are helping me by using judgement!....saying you must have food addictions, or over eat.  REally!  We are pretty nasty to each other and in fact I would dare state that we judge each other on things we have no right to...seeing as we are full of that very same sins.  Ok enough of that....
If we all made a point to seek to help and try to not make that person feel unsafe with us, we would be better off in the long run!  I am exsited about this place being set up as a safe place away from abusive eyes that would only judge, then help others over come!  amen!

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