overcomerstonewbeginnings

I guess it could depand on the words, if ones words are used for a purpose to painting a picture of sin inorder to get others to fun, then yes!!!  I would agree totally, its not diffrent them picking up a nasty romance book. 
I had a moment with a family member on my hubby's side that told me in detail, when I didnt want to know about a show she found her hubby watching, and some acts she found him doing when lusting after another women.  So, at the end of being cornered and told this, I felt sick and sorry for him that she was that way at all.  Some person that I at first trusted to talke about this too, and she then turned others against me with the infomation she got from me, as well as adding her own judgement what I said, say things I didnt say and painting me out to be a pervert.  REally! 
But when I went through marriage counceling befor I got married, my paster made me talk about the abuse I went through, even asking what i ment by ****!  So I used words that ment something other then what happened to me, so that others ended up thinking somehting else then what I ment.  See!?  But in a group that set out to help others from addictions as well as abusive behavor, we talk about it, for once I said what I ment for the first time, I cried, it was like addmitting what happened to me made me stop owning it as my falt, stopping that hiding of family shame just because I was trained to do so for others reputation.  When I told my hubby what happened with the right words, he was able to them help me see it wasnt my fault and that I was deeply loved by him.  Healing through the word of our testimony! 

Now at anytime is any of us went over what would be right, and turned this into a smutt post, report it and let those in charge deal with it!

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